
Looking at Teen Motherhood: The Fantastic Moms Video
VHS, 15 minutes
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Video $30; Institutions $100
Directed
by Salome Chasnoff
Produced
by Dalida Maria Benfield and the Fantastic Moms
"Working on
The Fantastic Moms Video, I learned who I wanted to be from
it. We took a lot of situations and we talked about them, and afterwards
I thought about them.... It helped me talk to my mom more, and by
her telling me, 'It's okay, everything is going to be all right, don't
worry,' this eased me. And another thing the video did for me, it
made me feel special because it was something I could tell other people,
'Don't be afraid, you have friends, don't worry what people think.'
I'm planning on showing it in English class because I feel it's a
strong video."
Charlotte
Lowe, workshop participant and co-producer, Looking At Teen
Motherhood
"Generally,
staff people were floored when they saw the video. They were surprised
by the girls' intelligence and clearly articulated thinking. They
were also surprised to hear what teen mothers thought about. They
thought teen moms were dummies, to be pitied. Kids who stumbled into
a hell without redemption. When they heard them talking, the girls
became people, each with a unique specialness. After seeing the video,
staff were able to address their new teen mothers as special, as fully
human. I showed it to these groups repeatedly, and each time they
saw new things in it.... [For the girls,] seeing themselves on the
video had a powerful effect, you know, Is that really me? They watch
it often. After being used to hearing what failures they were, here
they got to see their strength and they took it to heart....The whole
experience heightened their self-awareness in a very positive way.
They saw themselves as a team, working together in a process toward
a product. They saw that they can form a group, that they did not
need to be isolated, alienated individuals, renegades.... They also
learned through the process that they were women, that they were special
as women. They saw themselves as having talent, as a group, as individual
women, and as mothers."
Geneve
Wade, former Parent Education Programs Coordinator and Site
Director, Family Focus-Our Place, Evanston, IL
This
video was made possible through the support of
Family Focus Our Place, Evanston, IL
King Salmon Inc., Chicago, IL
The Chasnoff Family